Here are the best swinger sex sites on the planet in 2024. These will let you find legitimate swingers, mostly for free.
Considering how “sex” is the priority here, all the listed options in one or the other way prioritise that. In other words, if you’re looking for “long term dates”, this article probably isn’t for you. But then again, you never know where things go, eh?
Most of these sites reach far beyond the digital world. They often let you host or find offline events/parties dedicated specifically to swingers and other like-minded folks.
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The 7 Best Swinger Sex Sites in 2024
Here’s a list of all the best adult swinger sites I’ve listed here and what they specialize in:
- Ashley Madison– Extra martial affairs and discreet connections.
- AdultFriendFinder– Sexual priorities
- Alt– BDSM and other kinks.
- SwingLifeStyle- Exclusively for swingers
- SDC Swingers- Swinger exclusive
- Kasidie- Swingers and open-minded community in general.
- Swingersr4r- Free Reddit community.
1. Ashley Madison
Website: https://www.ashleymadison.com
Ashley Madison has 70MILLION+ registered users!
Ashley Madison is the flag bearer for extra martial dating site industry. It basically helps you find partners despite you already having a partner. Obviously, discretion is one of its primary selling points.
Because it’s a website that has the largest base of “engaged/non-single” users, it automatically becomes one of the best adult swinger sites out there, doesn’t it?
Once you login, you’re automatically shown profiles close to you. Without paying, you can instantly send winks to people.
Ashley Madison doesn’t charge anything to females. All the features are available for free. Men only pay when they’re trying to “initiate” a conversation. If a female initiates it, no payment is required.
It probably has the easiest, most modern and simple interfaces in all of the industry. Pretty advanced search filters let you search using location, age, last online, and many other profile details.
You can visit profiles even if you’re a free user. It allows both public as well as private albums. I’ll be honest, profiles could be a bit more detailed but aren’t. AM probably wanted people to talk to each other and find the kinks out. Travel partners can be found as well.
On the brighter side, even free users get access to the “viewed me” page. This shows you which users visited your profile.
You don’t even need a computer. It has native apps for both Android as well as iOS devices. On your mobile apps, the app icon is auto masked and doesn’t look like Ashley Madison in any way.
Even the charge on your credit card doesn’t appear from “Ashley Madison” and is rather billed to some harmless company.
Paid members need to buy credits to use Ashley Madison.
2. AdultFriendFinder
Website: https://adultfriendfinder.com/
After Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder is the second most visited destination by swingers. It too has one of the largest user bases on the planet.
AFF is primarily a site for letting you find sexual partners. As a result, the profiles too are pretty graphic and exposed.
It’s pretty easy to find swingers here especially using its search filters. You can search for users based on their relationship status, physical traits, location, distance and many other filters.
Because it has a “feed” you can post to, you can just as easily publish a post saying- “looking for swingers”. It’s that easy. Anyone interested may comment/DM you.
It has groups you can join, blogs you can read, people you can send “flirts” to or just “hotlist” them. Contests can be joined and you can also participate in polls. You get a full list of people who’ve visited you as well.
You can always find other people broadcasting live and can join their sessions. It always shows you a list of online members, members near you and VIPs.
Some profiles have the blue tick on them. These are the ones you should engage with. The blue tick is obtained after submitting and verifying real identifications.
You can get profile overview by hovering over profiles. The overview shows you a thumbnail, location, verification status, membership level, their interests etc.
However, if you click on profiles you’re taken to the subscription page. Profile visits are only for paid members.
3. Alt
Website: https://alt.com/
Alt has nearly 900,000 registered members as of today. Not nearly as good as Ashley Madison or AFF, but it’s still a pretty huge number, isn’t it?
Alt isn’t primarily a swinger site, it’s rather a kink and fetish site. However, due to its sexual priorities and advanced search filters, it totally can be used as a one of the best swinger sex sites 2024.
Do note that its interface is almost identical to that of AdultFriendFinder. However, the two sites have a completely different database of users.
Because it has an identical interface, all the AFF features such as live broadcasts, nude broadcasts, the feed/wall, blogs, polls, groups etc. too are available.
It does have this additional “kink” search. Hundreds, and probably thousands of kinks are available and can be selected. Alt then only shows you users interested in the same kinks as you.
Manually searching for members too is just as easy and specific. Age, location, verification status (yes, verified profiles exist), broadcasting status and many other filters are available.
Everyone who views you and everyone you’ve ever viewed is saved on a list you can access anytime. Most features can only be accessed after paying for a subscription.
4. SwingLifestyle
Website: https://www.swinglifestyle.com/
SwingLifeStyle claims to be the largest swinging community in the industry. Of course, that may or may not be true. However, I’ve always seen 7,000-10,000 online users here at any given time.
The interface (in my opinion) is what Facebook looked like a decade back. It has a “wall” where you can post text and pictures. It’s very basic and very simple.
Finding people is made simple with its 3 primary sections right on your dashboard. All of these are available for everyone, including free members:
- Who viewed me: Shows all the profiles who’ve viewed you.
- Newest matches: These are users with similar preferences like you.
- Random matches: Matches put together randomly.
There’s also a “who’s on” tab showing you online members near your location.
You sure can search for users manually. The filters include gender, sexual orientation, age, last online status, smoking habits, distance-range, profiles with pictures, profile verification level etc.
Yes, there is an optional verification procedure. Other members can “certify” other users which generally means the profiles are real. Browsing profiles is free although users have the option to not let free members access their profiles.
Profiles offer average details about the user. These include a few notes, fantasies, interest levels and what they’re looking for.
It has this very unique feature where it shows you parties, clubs, and other offline social events near your location. You get the address and timings for these events and may participate. It’s very likely you’d find others with similar goals as you in these events.
Paying is completely optional. However, paid members have access to more profiles and more features (instant messaging/ video chat etc.).
Plans start at $24.95/month.
5. SDC Swingers
Website: https://www.sdc.com/
“Erotic dating for swingers” is what the SDC tagline reads. Very clearly tells you what the site is about, doesn’t it? During sign up, you can even select what you’re looking for and “swingers” is the first option on the list.
You can join not just as a single/couple, but also if you’re a club/business!
Unfortunately though, it makes it mandatory to upload at least one profile picture before you can login. Also, this is verified by the platform (must contain a face) else it’s rejected.
Optionally, you can fill in hair length, hair colour, body type, piercings, languages spoken, sexuality, orientation and other details. These are the details that you can see on someone’s profile when you visit them, and vice-versa.
A very long list of “sexual comfort level” is also displayed. Exactly what you expect from a Swinger sex site, isn’t it? You can select from a ton of options:
Then there’s a separate list of BDSM-specific fetishes that you can choose. These are important as these help you find better and more compatible matches.
There are multiple chatrooms you can join for group discussions. Live broadcasts can be accessed as well. Forums and groups exist as well.
It also shows you who visited your profile. There’s also a speed date feature which lets you quickly accept/reject profiles.
The search filters aren’t very impressive and could be improved. It also shows offline parties, clubs and other businesses you may be interested in.
Profile validation exists as well. Paid members can validate others. Paid plans start at $12.91/month. Many other plans exist. There’s even a lifetime plan for $250.00.
6. Kasidie
Website: https://www.kasidie.com/
Kasidie mentions the word “swingers” nearly a dozen times on its homepage. With an extremely active and growing user-base, it could be one of your new favourite destinations.
There are chatrooms and instant messengers you can join. Public forums and groups are other places for you to hang out at. You can even post and share your travel plans or directly access plans posted by others.
You can also post rendezvous with offline locations or go to locations posted by others. Even has a “sexometer” so you know which member on these rendezvous is horny and who’s just looking for coffee.
Profiles have a “validation” feature, helps avoid fakes and catfishes. Multiple ways (both online and offline) exist for getting certified. Similarly, parties and events are other offline information you can find here.
There’s even a “discreet viewing” feature. Blurs every photo on the website automatically. Profile browsing isn’t free. Does show who visited you.
There’s also a full-fledged social feed. You can post text/videos/photos/links and even party check-ins.
Do note that, it has too many buttons and options on the homepage. May be confusing for some.
It does have one of the most advanced search panels on this entire list. You can search for smoking habits, hair colour, comfort level (sexual), certification/verification level, membership, activeness on Kasidie, exact location as well as distance from you and so much more.
Unfortunately, a ton of options are hidden behind the paywall. Paid membership starts at $19.95/month, other plans exist.
7. Swingersr4r
Website: https://www.reddit.com/r/swingersr4r/
This isn’t a website as such and is rather a subreddit. However, it’s totally and exclusively dedicated to Swingers and has over 345K members. Also, it’s absolutely free.
It has a long list of rules and an entire process. Following this streamlines the process and makes finding your partner easy.
There’s even a verification feature which grants you more exposure and importance in the community. You also get a “verified” flair.
At any given time, you can find 500 or so online members. Needless to say, it’s extremely active as well.
It’s one of those communities where you can find people not interested just in offline meets. A large population here is happy just sharing nudes and chatting online.
Which is the best of these Swinger Sex Sites in 2024?
Ashley Madison is the best place to start at. Then, you can move onto Adult Friend Finder. I’m more than confident these two will cater to your needs (they’ve a combined user-base of over 100 million+ users).
Obviously the other options will help you find swingers as well. As I’ve mentioned in the very first list on this article, every site has a slightly different purpose, or priority.
I’d still say though, just start with Ashley Madison if you can and move forward from there.